Conflict Resolution
We teach students in grades PreK-1 the Four Steps as a way to deal with conflict and to help empower them to handle problem situations on their own before approaching an adult.
Step 1. Use I-Statements (“I feel ____ when you ______.”)
Step 2. Say “No” or “Stop” in a firm voice
Step 3. Ignore the person or walk away
Step 4. Tell an adult
We teach students in grades 2-5 a five step approach to problem solving and conflict resolution. The approach is summarized as follows:
- Define the problem
- Brainstorm solutions
- Evaluate possible solutions by asking four questions:
- Is it safe:
- How might people feel about it?
- Is it fair?
- Will it work?
- Choose one solution and try it
- If it works great!, if it doesn’t, go back to your solutions and choose another option